It is my view of resolutions that you are far better off resolving to improve
what you currently do rather than change something major.
That’s not to say some people don’t pull off major changes but most of us don’t.
But you will get more success and pleasure from improving an existing skill.
Like cooking. Or poetry. Or being a friend.
But you will get more success and pleasure from improving an existing skill.
Like cooking. Or poetry. Or being a friend.
Reality Check
A ‘clean slate’s just a metaphor,
Not a really apt one.
While resolutions come each year
No-one’s ever trapped one.
And yet —
It seems we do forget.
Each year
We will, as I have found,
Do the same things as before;
With high hopes, each time round.
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© J Cosmo Newbery 2013
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So true! Now just off to work out how I went against last year's resolutions....:)
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year JCN!
Thank you Frankie, a very happy New Year to you too!
DeleteI agree! Nothing generally changes in the new year!
ReplyDeleteGood intentions dashed on the hard rocks of lethargy, usually. :-(
DeleteTrue! Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteI don't make resolutions and though I always have good intentions I can see myself making some of the same mistakes all over again ... but perhaps this year I shall be a little wiser.
ReplyDeleteI hope so.
xoxoxo ♡
Totally true! Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteI so agree with you, Cosmo..I never make resolutions...no point...I know I would break them!
ReplyDeleteA very Happy New Year to you and your family. :)
This is all terribly sensible. I hope it is not an indication of what we are to expect for the rest of the year. Happy New Year! I don't feel well thsi morning. I resolve never to drink more than 3 ever again!
ReplyDelete3 what?
ReplyDeletenot bottles of course..glasses of bubbly. I drank about - too many anyway!
ReplyDeleteNo resolutions here. I have no faith in myself. I muddle along from day to day - which mostly works. A reactive sort of life.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year to you and yours.
Happy New Year, JCN! All the best to you and yours.
ReplyDeleteYou could be wrong!
ReplyDeleteOf course I could. For individuals I most certainly am.
DeleteBut for the broader mass of humanity? Spot on. :-)
Ah my slate's never clean. There's always chalk dust lingering about. I like the idea of resolving to do better at whatever. Happy New year, JCN!
ReplyDeleteAn interesting juxtaposition after reading the poem right before ... and I like what Pauline says about never having a clean slate. I, too, have decades worth of chalk dust lingering. I don't resolve, often, or on the first day of the year to do anything differently in life. But I do pause, reflect and hope for the bright days that lie ahead. And that, to me, is the beauty of new year resolutions: they bring out the hopefulness in us normally cynical, sensible, lazy (insert whichever adjective you prefer) humans. And that in itself is a small blessing.
ReplyDeleteMay your new year be as fascinatingly layered as the one that just past.
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is hope really all that bad? not that I'm big on the whole resolution thing; I do kind of like the idea of small improvements though...little steps can lead to bigger ones.
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